Crossing the Line

Lately, a dear friend and I have been chatting about balance. What does it look like in our respective lives filled to the brim, overflowing even, with home and family, workplace or the absence thereof, the raising of children or gardens or dreams?

Today, we talked about crossing the line between idea and carrying out, between thought and action, between dream and fulfillment. Sometimes bringing an idea out from the safe nest of the mind into action, into our own messy hands, is the most difficult step. But like birthing a child into the world, it is only by crossing that line that we allow our dreams to breathe and grow.

Tonight I cleared my desk and office of clutter and brought out my notebooks. I’m going to write again.

Fresh Veggie Rice Salad

This is a favorite summer potluck dish, because the veggie mixture can be prepared a day ahead and refrigerated. Do remember, however, that the rice should be mixed in on the day of serving so that it does not dry out or harden.

Fresh Veggie Rice Salad

4 cups cooked Jasmine rice
1 can artichoke hearts (marinated or packed in water), chopped
1 can chopped black olives
1/2 jar capers with liquid
1/2 bunch fresh spinach, chopped
1 cup fresh, canned or frozen corn
1 carrot, diced
1/4 cup fresh or canned red bell pepper, chopped
2 cloves garlic, chopped
1 handful fresh basil, chopped
2-3 basil leaves for garnish
Juice of 1/2 lemon
Olive oil
Paprika to taste
Salt to taste

Heat olive oil in wok or pan. Saute garlic. Add all veggies, leaving basil to the end, and saute until tender. Do not overcook. Season with lemon, paprika, and salt. Mix rice into veggie mixture and let cool. Garnish and serve at room temperature.

The Riddle

“We plan our lives according to a dream that came to us in our childhood, and we find that life alters our plans. And yet, at the end, from a rare height, we also see that our dream was our fate. It’s just that providence had other ideas as to how we would get there. Destiny plans a different route, or turns the dream around, as if it were a riddle, and fulfills the dream in ways we couldn’t have expected.” – Ben Okri

Go Bananas! First Birthday Party

A year goes by so quickly. Recently, our precious little boy turned one. We have been the lucky witnesses, each day, of his zest for life, sweet innocence, silly sense of humor, and insatiable curiosity. What an adventure it has been! We celebrated our amazing son and his wild love of bananas with these cupcakes:

“Everything-free” Cupcakes

No gluten, wheat, dairy, eggs, nuts, peanuts, or soy–and surprisingly yummy.

• Cupcakes: Cherrybrook Kitchen’s Chocolate Cake Mix
• Frosting: Organic powdered sugar, water, and the yellow from India Tree Natural Decorating Colors
• Mini banana decorations:  Beach Monkey Banana Candy from Oriental Trading Company
• Chocolate chips: Enjoy Life semi-sweet chocolate chips
• Cupcake toppers: Made in 15 minutes from scraps of paper, scalloped craft scissors, toothpicks, glue, and leftover banana candy.
• Cupcake baking cups: If You Care Unbleached Baking Cups
• Party supplies: Safari Party from Birthdayinabox.com
• Bib: Green Sprouts Favorite Food Bib

Blessing

On this birthday, I read aloud this simple blessing, which I found in one of my books. I’d like to read it again next year and each year to follow:

Our Wish for You

May you always see beauty in the world

And hear music everyday.

May you know the touch of gentle hands

And walk the peaceful way.

May the words you speak be loving.

May laughter see you through.

May you be blessed with hope and joy–

These gifts we wish for you.

- Theresa Mary Grass

Go bananas with bliss, sweet baby!

Autumn, welcome.

Let the rain kiss you. Let the rain beat upon your head with silver liquid drops. Let the rain sing you a lullaby. - Langston Hughes

Sometime recently, the first autumn rains fell. I stepped out into the sweet tea of raindrops and felt cleansed, just a little bit. We’ve had challenges along with the immeasurable joy of seeing our precious baby grow (most of them rooted in the discovery of his tongue-tie at 8 months). But we’ve persevered, and he is healthy, happy, and thriving on mother’s milk and organic foods. This is a new season. The sky is opening, the earth is washed clean. Whatever your path this autumn, may it lead to peacefulness and wisdom.

Recipe: Aloo Gobi

There are fancier and more authentic aloo gobi recipes out there. This is a quick-and-easy version that we make at our home. I’m posting this for Indian food lovers and also especially for our friends, Mike and Ellasion.

Ingredients

1 head cauliflower cut into bite-sized pieces
1 large potato, cubed
3-4 cloves garlic, chopped
1 tsp. olive oil
Tumeric to taste
Paprika to taste
Cumin seed to taste
Salt to taste
Cilantro (optional)

Instructions
• Prep cauliflower, potato, and garlic.
• Add to olive oil heated in wok or pot.
• Add water to just under vegetables.
• Let cook for 7 minutes.
• Add spices and salt.
• Let cook until fork passes through potatoes and cauliflower.
• Garnish with chopped cilantro.

Plums to Hydrangeas

Since my last post, we’ve transitioned from the season of flowering plums:

… to brilliant roses glowing in the sun:

… and hydrangeas in hues like watercolors:

Sleep is elusive in our new life with a baby with a million-watt smile who would rather drink in the world than close his eyes for a nap. We are on a fast-paced journey during which the seasons change from plums to hydrangeas almost before we realize it. Breathe. Luxuriate in each moment. Even on the tough days after long, sleepless nights. That’s what I keep telling myself. I want to be awake, to be present every moment of the journey.

Baby Bliss & Sleepless Nights

Our baby boy arrived two weeks early on February 7, 2009 (7 lbs., 8 oz., 19 in.). He’s beautiful, healthy, and so very adored. We’re thrilled and exhausted, as can be expected during the first few weeks of parenthood. Sometimes it’s bliss. Sometimes it’s sheer exhaustion. But we’re excited about the journey we’ve begun. We’re hoping for just enough patience and wisdom for the years ahead. That’s it for now, but I’ll be back to post more when life settled into some semblance of a routine.

For 2009

- May there be space in my life for books and poetry and art.

- May there be abundant health for the ones I love.

- May my heart expand fully to embrace our little one.

- May I become more aware of the earth, of humanity, of the spiritual.

- May my soul be at ease just enough to be able to write.

- May the richness of love and family pervade our home.

- May I be a good friend.

- May I always choose softness of heart.

- May I encounter beauty, peace, goodness, and hope in the world.

- May I be thankful each and every day.

It’s that season…

Winter garden,
the moon thinned to a thread,
insects singing

- Matsuo Basho

Outside:

And inside, winter fruit and poetry:

Festive decorations:

Making more caps for babies in Haiti:

It’s that season when my heart turns inward a bit and longs for quietude and cozy evenings. I haven’t been posting regularly for that reason and because our days have simply been busy preparing for the holidays and for our baby boy’s arrival in ten weeks. I hope you’ll keep visiting despite my sporadic posts. May you have a peaceful, blissful holiday season!